Speak Like a CEO, Lead Like HR: Power Language That Drives Culture Change

by Nov 12, 2025

Last week, we gave you tips on how to make a business case for culture change. Did you try it yet? How did it go?

As we were brainstorming for this week’s newsletter, we realized that part two is in order, and it’s all about how you present the amazing business case you’ve established.

When HR professionals take this next step, we often see it go one of two ways. Some lean in, use their data to tell a powerful story, and capture leadership’s attention. Others come armed with engagement data, turnover costs, and retention risks and still face polite smiles and redirected attention to “more urgent” business matters.

It’s frustrating, right? Especially when you see what others don’t. That culture is the engine behind performance, retention, and brand reputation. HR sees the full picture, connecting the human experience to business outcomes. That means you don’t just deserve a seat at the table — you already own one. You just need the right language to make others see it too.

Because here’s the thing: it’s not that your case isn’t strong. It’s that you’re speaking a language leadership doesn’t respond to. Executives are filtering for what sounds like business. That’s why power language is powerful. It’s about framing your message in a way that triggers urgency, relevance, and accountability in the minds of decision-makers.


Power Language You Can Use

The best part is, you already have the insight. You just need to translate it into the language leaders respect most: results, risk, and return. Here’s how:

 

Speak in Metrics, Not Morals

When you say, “We need to make people feel appreciated,” it sounds nice. But when you say, “We’re losing high performers because they don’t feel recognized and replacing them could cost us $250K this year,” it sounds necessary.

Leaders don’t ignore emotions because they don’t care; they ignore them because they don’t have time to interpret what those emotions mean for the business. So make it easy for them. Tie every culture problem to a business impact – productivity, retention, innovation, risk, or reputation.

Don’t just speak from the heart. Lead with numbers that hit them in the gut.

 

Align Culture Change with Business Strategy

Once you start speaking in metrics, the next step is to speak in alignment.

Culture doesn’t live in a vacuum. It fuels (or frustrates) your business goals. But too often, HR leads with what you want to do instead of why it helps the business win. Connect the dots between culture and strategy so clearly that executives can’t see one without the other.

Think about how your company defines success and make culture the bridge that gets you there faster. Speak like this:

  • “To meet our innovation goals, we need a culture where employees feel safe challenging ideas.”
  • “To improve client retention, we have to first improve employee engagement.”
  • “If we want operational excellence, we have to eliminate the dysfunction slowing teams down.”

That’s how you make leadership see culture not as HR’s project, but as the fuel behind every business priority they already care about.

 

Use Storytelling to Make Data Come Alive

Numbers open doors, but stories keep them open. You can have all the data in the world about engagement, turnover, or performance, but numbers alone don’t move hearts. And if you want leadership to not only understand your culture case but also feel compelled to act, you have to go beyond charts and metrics. You have to tell a story. Here’s an example

“When one of our sales departments was struggling with turnover nearing 45% a year, all tied to one abrasive leader, the team invested in leadership coaching for the abrasive leader. Within six months, turnover dropped by half. The leader was more effective. The same employees who once dreaded coming to work were now mentoring others. Productivity rose, complaints disappeared, and even customers noticed the difference.”

That’s not just a success story. It’s proof that culture work works. Leaders remember stories like that. They retell them. They use them to justify decisions in boardrooms and budget meetings.

 

Anticipate Leadership Pushback and Reframe It

Leaders are wired to protect resources, manage risk, and question change. So when they push back with “We don’t have time” or “That’s not a priority right now,” it doesn’t mean they don’t believe in culture — it means they’re trying to protect the business as they see it.

Your job is to reframe that mindset, to help them see that inaction is the bigger risk.

Here’s how: “I completely understand we have limited bandwidth. But ignoring turnover and burnout now will cost far more later in recruiting, lost productivity, and damaged morale. This isn’t about adding work. It’s about preventing a crisis.”

Pushback is not a dead end; it’s an invitation to clarify your value. Hold your ground with confidence and composure so leaders will start following your lead.

 

Final Thoughts

You are the heartbeat of the organization and it’s time to own that power. These are just a few examples and if you’re ready to take your influence to the next level, check out our resource, “Power Language Playbook,” for more phrases, examples, and scripts you can start using right away.

And when your organization is ready to move from talk to action, our team of culture experts,  with decades of experience helping companies transform toxic environments into thriving, high-performing workplaces, is here to guide you every step of the way.

You’ve got the insight. You’ve got the influence. Now use your language to lead the change.

Incivility, bullying, and harassment occur because the culture allows them to. Before starting inclusivity initiatives, you’ve got to stop bad behavior. Take this assessment to determine if your workplace fosters a positive culture.

 

Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500’s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought-leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author and blogger, and has 50+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning. Catherine’s award-winning book, BACK OFF! Your Kick-Ass Guide to Ending Bullying at Work, was hailed by international leadership-guru, Ken Blanchard, as, “the most comprehensive and valuable handbook on the topic.” Her latest book is Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley).

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