Pride Month: Performative Vs. Actual Activities

by Jun 10, 2026

Happy Pride Month!

This month, you’ll see rainbow logos, employee resource group events, and social media campaigns celebrating LGBTQ+ employees and communities. But Pride Month wasn’t created as a marketing campaign or even as a celebration. It began as a protest.

Understanding will help you move beyond any performative gestures and toward something more meaningful: creating workplaces where people feel safe, respected, and able to bring their authentic selves to work.

 

The Origins of Pride Month

The roots of Pride Month trace back to June 28, 1969, when police raided the Stonewall Inn, a gay bar in New York City’s Greenwich Village. Police raids on LGBTQ+ establishments were common at the time, but that night, patrons and community members resisted. The resulting demonstrations lasted several days and became a turning point in the modern LGBTQ+ rights movement.

One year later, activists organized the first Pride marches in New York, Los Angeles, Chicago, and San Francisco to commemorate the Stonewall uprising and advocate for equal rights. They were public demonstrations demanding visibility, dignity, and legal protections for LGBTQ+ people.

June was officially recognized as Pride Month in the United States decades later, first through a presidential proclamation by President Bill Clinton in 1999.

Today, Pride is celebrated around the world and its foundation remains rooted in a simple idea: everyone deserves the freedom to live openly and safely.

 

What Pride Means in the Workplace

Pride Month isn’t just about history. It’s about whether members of the LGBTQ+ community feel comfortable being out and proud at work, not just this month, but every day of the year.

The workplace has made significant progress over the past several decades. Anti-discrimination protections have expanded and employee resource groups have become more common. Yet the experience of LGBTQ+ employees remains uneven.

Research from the Human Rights Campaign Foundation found that 84% of LGBTQ+ employees are open about their sexual orientation to at least one person at work. On the surface, that seems encouraging. However, the same research found that nearly 25% of LGBTQ+ employees have hidden their identity at work because of fear of discrimination or a lack of protections. Additionally, 28% reported leaving a job because the workplace environment felt unwelcoming.

These findings reveal an important truth: visibility and psychological safety are not the same thing.

An employee may be “out” to a trusted coworker while still feeling uncomfortable discussing their spouse, displaying family photos, or correcting assumptions about their identity.

For anyone who doesn’t understand this, consider what it’d be like to question whether you should put pictures of your spouse on your desk, or talk about what you did over the weekend with your partner.

True inclusion happens when employees no longer have to calculate whether authenticity will come at a professional cost.

 

When Do Employees Start Feeling Comfortable?

There is no single moment when LGBTQ+ employees suddenly feel comfortable being themselves at work. Instead, comfort develops through everyday interactions and organizational signals.

All employees tend to feel safer when they consistently experience:

  • Respectful and inclusive leadership behavior.
  • Clear anti-harassment and anti-discrimination policies.
  • Colleagues who challenge inappropriate comments.
  • Visible support from managers.
  • Inclusive benefits and practices.
  • Representation of people like them in leadership positions.

The Human Rights Campaign’s workplace research identifies everyday interactions and team culture as some of the strongest predictors of whether LGBTQ+ employees feel accepted and included. Inclusion is often shaped less by corporate statements and more by daily experiences with supervisors and coworkers.

This distinction matters because many organizations focus heavily on symbolic gestures while overlooking the day-to-day behaviors that actually build trust.

According to the Williams Institute at UCLA School of Law, 47% of LGBTQ+ employees have experienced workplace discrimination or harassment at some point in their careers because of their sexual orientation or gender identity. The study also found that 46% are not open about being LGBTQ+ with their current supervisor, and 21% are not out to any coworkers.

The emotional energy required to constantly monitor and manage one’s identity can affect engagement, well-being, and retention. When employees are focused on self-protection, they have fewer resources available for creativity, collaboration, and performance.

If you’d like to help employees and managers build the skills needed to foster a more inclusive and respectful workplace, we can help. We offer training programs for employees at all levels, including specialized sessions for managers and leaders. Explore our full menu of training topics here, and let us know if you’d like to bring one to your organization.

 

What Organizations Can Learn from Pride’s History

The history of Pride Month reminds us that inclusion has always been about more than visibility. It is about creating environments where people can participate fully without fear.

For employers, that means recognizing that belonging is not achieved through a single event in June. It is built through consistent actions throughout the year.

Organizations that want LGBTQ+ employees to feel comfortable bringing their whole selves to work should focus on the fundamentals:

  • Holding leaders accountable for respectful behavior.
  • Addressing incivility and harassment promptly.
  • Ensuring policies and benefits are inclusive.
  • Supporting employee resource groups and allies.
  • Creating cultures where differences are respected rather than merely tolerated.

The goal is not simply helping employees feel comfortable coming out. The goal is creating workplaces where employees never feel they need to hide in the first place.

 

Looking Forward

Pride Month began with individuals who refused to accept exclusion and injustice. More than fifty years later, that legacy continues to offer an important lesson for organizations: belonging does not happen because a company declares itself inclusive. It happens when employees experience inclusion every day.

As we reflect on Pride Month, perhaps the most meaningful question is not whether you and your employer are open to celebrating Pride, but whether your LGBTQ+ employees genuinely feel they still belong on July 1 and for the rest of their working lives.

Incivility, bullying, and harassment occur because the culture allows them to. Before starting inclusivity initiatives, you’ve got to stop bad behavior. Take this assessment to determine if your workplace fosters a positive culture.

 

Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author, and blogger and has 60+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning. Her fourth book, Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley), is available in all major bookstores and where audiobooks are sold.

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