Common Leadership Mistakes

by Oct 21, 2013

“Experience is simply the name we give our mistakes.”  – Oscar Wilde

We hear that learning from our mistakes gives us a better opportunity for the next time something occurs. However, not making the mistake in the first place is even better.

In this article, I will be providing the most common leadership mistakes and how you can avoid these errors. Reading about these mistakes now can better prepare you to avoid them in the future, ultimately saving yourself the trouble.

1. The Lack of Feedback

For example, Jane may be a great customer service representative, but she has a bad habit of answering the calls unprofessionally. Her boss is waiting for her performance review to address this issue. Unfortunately for Jane, until someone brings this problem to her attention, she will continue the way she talks.

Failing to provide feedback at the appropriate time is one of the most common leadership mistakes. By waiting until the last minute, you are depriving your employees to improve their performance.

2. Being Hands-Off

One of your team has completed an important project for a client. The problem is that the team misunderstood the task and completed the project in the wrong manner. Now, you are faced with an angry client that needs an explanation.

Many leaders try to avoid micromanaging. With that said, being laissez faire isn’t the best way to manage either. Find a good balance between these two styles to fit the needs of your company.

3. Too Friendly of a Leader

Everyone wants to be seen as friendly and approachable, which is good. Sometimes though, you will be required to make some tough decisions regarding people on your team. People will try to take advantage of your friendship in those situations.

This does not mean you cant be friendly towards your team. It just means to be friendly with moderation – the line between being a friend and being a boss should be set clear.

4. Undefined Goals

Not setting clear goals will prevent your team from being productive. Since they don’t know what the goals are, priorities might not be set properly completing tasks in the wrong order.

5. Not Delegating

Some managers cannot delegate work because they don’t think anyone but themselves can complete the given tasks. This often leads to too much workloads leading to stress and burning out.

You are the manager and your responsibilities are different from your previous position. Learn to trust your team and delegate tasks as you focus more on the broader picture.

Things to Remember

We are all prone to making mistakes, but these are the most common mistakes when it comes to managing your team. It’s true that mistakes can be a great learning opportunity, but avoiding these common mistakes can help your team become more productive and successful. You will be highly respected by your team.

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Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author, and blogger and has 60+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning.  Her fourth book, Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley), is available in all major bookstores and where audiobooks are sold.

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