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You’ve been at the receiving end of a steady diet of advice that sounds smart, looks great on conference slides, and earns plenty of LinkedIn engagement.
But it’s wrong. Not all of it. And not completely.
Just wrong enough to keep organizations focused on symptoms instead of causes, policies instead of people, and compliance instead of culture.
And… all those misconceptions are costing organizations more than they realize.
A few months ago, I took the stage at DisruptHR San Diego to challenge some of the workplace culture advice that’s long been accepted as fact.
If you’ve never attended a DisruptHR event, imagine TED Talks with less formality, more energy, and a healthy dose of challenging conventional wisdom. Speakers get just five minutes to make their point, and I used every second of mine.
I’m just sick of hearing the same ol’ advice over and over, and apparently I got a little fired up. To be fair, that was exactly the energy the event called for.
You can watch the full five-minute talk here:
Warning: I used a few choice words.
The Workplace Culture Advice We Need to Unlearn
In the talk, I share several workplace culture myths that continue to shape how organizations approach culture, leadership, harassment prevention, burnout, and employee engagement.
Here are four of them.
Lie #1: Culture Eats Strategy for Breakfast
I know. This one is practically HR gospel. But think about what it implies: that culture and strategy are somehow separate things, and that culture can either support or sabotage strategy.
That’s not how organizations actually work.
Culture is strategy.
The way people communicate, collaborate, make decisions, resolve conflict, and treat one another directly impacts whether strategic goals are achieved.
We’ve all seen organizations with terrible cultures continue to hit revenue targets. We’ve also seen organizations with positive cultures struggle strategically.
The lesson isn’t that culture doesn’t matter. It’s that culture should be treated as a strategic asset, not as a side initiative. When culture becomes part of your strategic plan, you will gain a competitive advantage that competitors can’t easily replicate.
Lie #2: Culture Comes from the Top
Leadership absolutely influences culture but culture doesn’t magically flow down from executives and settle over employees like a blanket.
Employees experience culture through daily interactions. They experience it through conversations with coworkers, through how managers respond to mistakes, through how conflicts are handled, and through what behaviors are rewarded, ignored, and tolerated.
That means every employee influences culture.
Waiting for executives to change before addressing culture is one of the biggest mistakes you can make. Culture shifts happen through thousands of interactions every day, not through a memo from the CEO.
If you want culture change, start where people actually experience culture: in their daily relationships.
Lie #3: Policies Drive Behavior
HR professionals love policies. Employees don’t decide whether to engage in misconduct by consulting the employee handbook.
Nobody has ever thought: “Well, I was going to bully my coworker today, but page 47 says I shouldn’t.”
Policies establish expectations and provide legal protection. They’re important but they don’t shape behavior nearly as much as social norms. People behave in ways they believe will be rewarded, ignored, or tolerated.
If leaders tolerate disrespect, employees learn that disrespect is acceptable. If managers reward collaboration, employees learn that collaboration matters. Culture, not policy, is what determines how people actually behave.
Lie #4: Harassment Is a Compliance Problem
Harassment prevention has become heavily focused on compliance.
- Training requirements.
- Reporting procedures.
- Investigation protocols.
All important.
But by the time you’re conducting an investigation, your culture has already failed. Harassment is fundamentally a people and culture problem.
When individuals believe harmful behavior will be tolerated, ignored, or even rewarded, misconduct flourishes. Organizations that focus exclusively on compliance often miss the larger question: What conditions allowed this behavior to occur in the first place?
The goal shouldn’t simply be responding to harassment effectively. The goal should be creating cultures where harassment is less likely to occur at all.
There Are More Lies Where Those Came From
In my DisruptHR talk, I also tackle myths about retaliation, burnout, engagement surveys, toxic leaders, and why many workplace interventions fail to create meaningful change.
The entire presentation is just five minutes long, but it challenges some of the most common assumptions HR professionals have been taught for years.
Watch the full talk here and share with your network! Then let me know which “lie” resonated with you the most.
And if you’re ready to move beyond compliance and start building a culture where people actually thrive, schedule a conversation with our expert, Rebecca Del Secco. Whether you need ideas, strategy, or simply a sounding board, we’d love to help. Grab a time on her calendar here.
