Is your organization facilitating bullying?

by Sep 24, 2019

As someone who specializes in coaching abrasive and aggressive leaders, I’ve noticed some patterns. Topics that continue to come up in my coaching sessions time and again.

Get this. There are things your organization could be doing that actually facilitate bullying. I explain it all in this 5-minute video.

If you want the cliff notes version, here are three questions to consider:

  1. Does your performance management program provide clear tools and guidelines for managers to coach poor performance and behavior?
  2. Do your leaders teach others how to bully through their own behavior?
  3. Does your organization hold people accountable for good performance and good behavior?

If you want to learn more, watch the video 🙂

If you want more information about coaching, check out my webpage on how it works. You can also check out my LinkedIn Learning video on the topic if you want.

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP is President of consulting and training firm, Civility Partners, and has been successfully providing programs in workplace bullying and building positive workplaces since 2007. Her clients include Fortune 500’s, the military, several universities and hospitals, government agencies, small businesses and nonprofits. She has published in a variety of trade magazines and has appeared several times on NPR, FOX, NBC, and ABC as an expert, as well as in USA Today, Inc Magazine, Huffington Post, Entrepreneur Magazine, and more. Catherine is Past-President of the Association for Talent Development (ATD), San Diego Chapter and teaches at National University. In his book foreword, Ken Blanchard called her book, BACK OFF! Your Kick-Ass Guide to Ending Bullying at Work, “the most comprehensive and valuable handbook on the topic.” She recently released a second book entitled, SEEKING CIVILITY: How Leaders, Managers and HR Can Create a Workplace Free of Bullying.

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