Conscious Unbossing: Why Gen Z Is Saying “No Thanks” to Leadership Roles

by Jul 23, 2025

According to DDI’s Global Leadership Forecast 2025, 80% of HR professionals lack confidence in their leadership pipelines. CEOs are just as concerned, ranking “developing the next generation of leaders” among their top four worries.

Gen Z is shaking things up. They’re 1.7 times more likely than other generations to step away from leadership roles to protect their well-being. Over half say they’re purposely avoiding management, and nearly 70% see middle management as a stressful, thankless zone they want no part of.

But let’s get one thing straight – this isn’t about laziness or a lack of ambition. Gen Z isn’t anti-leadership. They’re anti-burnout, anti-toxic hierarchy, and definitely anti “grind now, live later.” They want purpose, autonomy, and a healthy balance. And if a role doesn’t align with those values, they’ll walk away without hesitation.

 

What Is Conscious Unbossing?

Say hello to the newest buzzword in the Gen Z work glossary: Conscious Unbossing. It lives somewhere between quiet quitting and Bare Minimum Mondays, but don’t get it twisted – it’s not about slacking off. It’s about opting in to a new kind of leadership.

Conscious unbossing is the intentional choice to step away from outdated management models. Not because young professionals lack ambition, but because they’re redefining what leadership even means. Think: less bossing, more building. Less control, more collaboration.

 

Why the Shift?

It’s a mix of experience, observation, and evolving values. Here’s what’s driving this cultural pivot:

 

Burnout Culture Is a Red Flag

Many younger professionals watched their managers and parents burn out, work long hours, and absorb blame while getting little support. Why would they sign up for that?

 

Authenticity Over Authority

Leadership that’s rooted in control or status doesn’t appeal. Millennials and Gen Z prefer relational leadership—collaborative, empathetic, and transparent. If the organization’s culture doesn’t support or reward that, why be a leader?

 

Wellness Is Non-Negotiable

Mental health isn’t a perk – it’s a priority. If a role compromises it, they’ll walk. No paycheck is worth their peace of mind, particularly because they can get a job virtually anywhere in the world.

 

Impact Over Prestige

They’re not chasing titles. They’re chasing meaning. They want work that matters – purpose is important to them because they grew up exposed to the world in a way that those of us who didn’t have the internet as kids weren’t. 

To Baby Boomers and Gen Xers, this might feel puzzling. Promotions used to mean success. Now? A growing number of young professionals see them as a trap.

And the numbers back it up: in Robert Walters survey, 36% of Gen Z professionals expect they’ll eventually need to take on a management role but 16% flat-out refuse, and 69% think middle management isn’t worth it.

 

What This Means for Organizations

Conscious unbossing throws a wrench into traditional succession planning but it also cracks open the door to something better.

This trend exposes the outdated structures we’ve clung to for too long. It reveals a disconnect between the leadership roles offered and the leadership experience younger generations actually want.

The move isn’t to shove them back into the same old mold and hope they play along. The move is to break the mold entirely and build something better.

 

How to Build Leadership Gen Z Wants to Say Yes To

 

1. Rebrand Leadership

Stop framing leadership as “climbing the ladder.” Instead, position it as a platform for influence, impact, and coaching. Focus on emotional intelligence, community building, and purpose – not power and prestige.

And how do you know what your employees actually need from leadership? What will inspire them to step up rather than step out? That’s where we come in. We help organizations uncover those answers through our culture-focused workforce surveys, which measure five critical dimensions of workplace culture. These insights are your roadmap to reimagining leadership in a way that resonates with your workforce, especially the next generation. Check it out here.

 

2. Make Mental Health a Leadership Skill

Support your managers in prioritizing psychological safety, trauma-informed leadership, and real work-life balance. Set the tone: great leaders don’t grind themselves or their teams into dust.

Our Manager Evolution Lab is designed to help your middle managers become the kind of leaders today’s workforce actually wants to follow with hands-on coaching, real-world practice, and a focus on values-based leadership. Learn more here. 

 

3. Co-Create the Future

Invite Millennials and Gen Z into the conversation. Ask them what leadership needs to look like in order for them to take interest in taking it on, and then build it with them. By 2030, Gen Z will make up nearly a third of the global workforce and they’re not bringing a 20th-century mindset with them.

 

Final Thoughts

Stop asking, “Why don’t they want to lead?” and start asking, “What kind of leadership would inspire them to stay?”

Gen Z isn’t rejecting leadership. They’re rejecting the burnout badge of honor, the power plays, the politics, and the pressure.

They want to lead with collaboration, clarity, and conscience. And if you’re serious about building positive, thriving workplace cultures, it’s time to meet them where they are and create a version of leadership worth aspiring to.

Incivility, bullying, and harassment occur because the culture allows them to. Before starting inclusivity initiatives, you’ve got to stop bad behavior. Take this assessment to determine if your workplace fosters a positive culture.

 

Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500’s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought-leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author and blogger, and has 50+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning. Catherine’s award-winning book, BACK OFF! Your Kick-Ass Guide to Ending Bullying at Work, was hailed by international leadership-guru, Ken Blanchard, as, “the most comprehensive and valuable handbook on the topic.” Her latest book is Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley).

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