Danger Of Workplace Bullying – Looking At The Miami Dolphins

by Nov 11, 2013

Miami Dolphins: What Happened?

The NFL locker room has long been considered a type of fraternity. Some of the things done, said and tolerated in the 32 locker rooms around the league would be completely unacceptable in any other workplace across the United States. Because of this, it is no surprise that a player is finally rejecting the widely accepted culture of the NFL. Jonathan Martin, a second year offensive lineman for the Miami Dolphins, took a leave of absence last week, citing personal reasons. No one really gave it much attention. However, news broke that these personal reasons were actually linked to bullying by a few of his teammates.

Fellow offensive lineman Richie Incognito has been identified as the main culprit in the case and was suspended indefinitely, after an abusive voicemail sent to Martin by Incognito leaked to the public. In the voicemail, Incognito threatens Martin’s life, spews vulgar insults and makes racist remarks. But this is the NFL, and such behavior is not typically uncommon.

Martin’s coaches and teammates had no idea what Martin was going through, which means that Martin felt that he could not voice his concerns to the people that were responsible for creating the environment. This is what Martin blames the most for his emotional distress. In recent days, Martin has said that he does not blame his teammates for the abuse that he endured, rather the culture of the NFL and the environment that was created in that Miami Dolphins locker room.

It is no surprise that several Dolphins players have come to Incognito’s defense. In their eyes, nothing out of the ordinary had been done wrong because it was in the context of an NFL locker room. That’s just the way it is. And that is exactly the problem.

Danger Of Workplace Bullying

So what’s the difference between harassment and workplace bullying? The answer is in the law. Workplace bullying and harassment are the same thing – both are meant to gain power over another person and make their work environment entirely uncomfortable. The content of the behaviors, however, is what makes all the legal difference: harassment is about protected classes, and workplace bullying is about equal opportunity.

Incognito was sending texts with racial slurs according to all of the media reports, so the racial slurs make the texts harassment and against federal law. If Incognito was sending nasty texts that did not include anything about gender, race or disability then the texts are workplace bullying, and perfectly legal.

Catherine Mattice speaks on The Washington Times regarding the danger of workplace bullying.

Incivility, bullying, and harassment occur because the culture allows them to. Before starting inclusivity initiatives, you’ve got to stop bad behavior. Take this assessment to determine if your workplace fosters a positive culture.

 

Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author, and blogger and has 60+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning. Her fourth book, Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley), is available in all major bookstores and where audiobooks are sold.

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