Prevent Accidental Bullying Tendencies Through Workplace Bullying Consulting

by Nov 4, 2015

There are times when there are stuff we do at work which we do not pay attention to, or remain unnoticed. For us these things could be normal or ordinary, but some may consider it as snobbish or worse, a bully behavior by others. Such may be prevalent in an intimidating office environment where you might be surprised to find yourself as an “accidental bully.” With the civility at work at stake, you could be a bully without realizing it!

Research says that 37% of employees have been bullied at work. While workplace bullying training is alien to some industries, bullying is not merely tolerated but is acceptable as part of the competitive work culture. These days, a number of organizations push people to aggressively compete for the top spot, as observed by Joan Kingsley, Organizational Psychotherapist. Such culture is ironic as the Workplace Bullying Institute says that bullying negatively affects productivity.

In our present social system, it is natural for superiors to exert powers over their subordinates. Study shows that some employees were unaware of their bullying tendencies without realizing it until after some workplace bullying training sessions. However, if the intent is to assert dominance without any rational reason, then such act is bullying.

Bullying is all about intention. Sometimes, there are people who appear to be unintentional bullies to others.  If one thinks that one’s behavior might be construed as a “bully behavior” by others, then he or she might consider undergoing workplace bullying consulting.

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Incivility, bullying, and harassment occur because the culture allows them to. Before starting inclusivity initiatives, you’ve got to stop bad behavior. Take this assessment to determine if your workplace fosters a positive culture.

 

Catherine

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP, is the founder/CEO of Civility Partners, an organizational development firm focused on helping organizations create respectful workplace cultures and specializing in turning around toxic cultures. Civility Partners’ clients range from Fortune 500s to small businesses across many industries. Catherine is a TEDx speaker and an HR thought leader who has appeared in such venues as USA Today, Bloomberg, CNN, NPR, and many other national news outlets as an expert. She’s an award-winning speaker, author, and blogger and has 60+ courses reaching global audiences on LinkedIn Learning. Her fourth book, Navigating Toxic Work Environments For Dummies (Wiley), is available in all major bookstores and where audiobooks are sold.

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