10 Steps to Replace Workplace Bullying with Civility

by Jan 11, 2017

For a more comprehensive read of this video graphic, please refer to this blog, 10 Steps to Replace Workplace Bullying with a Positive Environment.

In every workplace, a harmonious environment is essential for productivity, creativity, and employee well-being. Unfortunately, workplace bullying can poison this atmosphere, affecting individuals and the organization as a whole. However, there’s a powerful antidote: cultivating a culture of civility.

 

Understanding Workplace Bullying

Workplace bullying manifests in various forms, from verbal abuse and intimidation to exclusion and spreading rumors. It creates a toxic atmosphere that erodes morale, diminishes productivity, and causes emotional distress among employees. Often, it’s a result of power imbalances, personal conflicts, or organizational culture issues.

 

Embracing Civility

Civility involves respect, empathy, and courteous behavior in interactions. It’s about actively listening, acknowledging different perspectives, and fostering an inclusive environment where everyone feels valued. Embracing civility in the workplace can be transformative:

 

1. Clear Policies and Training:

Establishing clear anti-bullying policies and conducting regular training sessions on respectful communication and conflict resolution are crucial. This educates employees about acceptable behavior and provides them with the tools to address conflicts constructively.

 

2. Lead by Example:

Leaders set the tone for workplace behavior. When leaders prioritize civility, it creates a ripple effect throughout the organization. Encouraging open dialogue and demonstrating respect in all interactions inspires others to follow suit.

 

3. Encourage Open Communication:

Create avenues for employees to voice concerns or conflicts in a safe environment. This could be through regular team meetings, suggestion boxes, or anonymous feedback channels. Encourage respectful dialogue and active listening.

 

4. Celebrate Diversity and Inclusion:

A diverse workplace brings different perspectives and ideas. Celebrating diversity and fostering an inclusive culture not only mitigates bullying but also encourages innovation and creativity.

 

5. Support and Empower Employees:

Offer resources and support for those who experience or witness bullying. Establish confidential channels where individuals can seek help without fear of retaliation. Empower employees to stand up against bullying by providing guidance on appropriate interventions.

 

The Benefits of a Civil Workplace

Transitioning from a culture of bullying to one of civility brings about numerous advantages:

  • Improved Morale: Employees feel valued and respected, leading to higher morale and job satisfaction.
  • Enhanced Productivity: A positive work environment fosters collaboration and creativity, boosting overall productivity.
  • Retention and Recruitment: A civil workplace attracts and retains talent, as people seek environments where they feel respected and supported.
  • Healthier Workplace: Mental and emotional well-being improves when employees feel safe and respected at work.

 

Cultivating Lasting Change

Transforming a workplace culture takes time and commitment from all levels of the organization. It requires consistent reinforcement of values, ongoing education, and a genuine dedication to creating a respectful environment for all.

Replacing workplace bullying with civility isn’t just a matter of policy; it’s a commitment to creating a space where individuals thrive. By fostering respect, empathy, and open communication, organizations can build a bully-free workplace that encourages collaboration, innovation, and overall well-being. Together, let’s create environments where everyone feels valued and respected. 

Do you know how much money chronically bad behavior costs your company? Spoiler alert – it’s a LOT higher than you want it to be. Download our data and worksheet to see how it’s costing your organization and what you can do to fix it.

 

About Catherine Mattice

Catherine Mattice, MA, SPHR, SHRM-SCP is President of consulting and training firm, Civility Partners, and has been successfully providing programs in workplace bullying and building positive workplaces since 2007. Her clients include Fortune 500’s, the military, several universities and hospitals, government agencies, small businesses and nonprofits. She has published in a variety of trade magazines and has appeared several times on NPR, FOX, NBC, and ABC as an expert, as well as in USA Today, Inc Magazine, Huffington Post, Entrepreneur Magazine, and more. Catherine is Past-President of the Association for Talent Development (ATD), San Diego Chapter and teaches at National University. In his book foreword, Ken Blanchard called her book, BACK OFF! Your Kick-Ass Guide to Ending Bullying at Work, “the most comprehensive and valuable handbook on the topic.” She recently released a second book entitled, SEEKING CIVILITY: How Leaders, Managers and HR Can Create a Workplace Free of Bullying.

January Jitters: 4 Tips for Keeping Morale High After the Holidays

Happy New Year! Now that we’re all back to the grind, let’s talk about January’s reputation as the least productive month of the year. The post-holiday slump is real - teams return to work with noticeably less pep in their step.   This time of year can feel like...

3 Stories That Prove Positive Culture Change is Possible

When SHRM launched their #CivilityAtWork initiative, it felt like a rallying cry for everything we believe in and have been fighting for these last 15 years. Respectful, thriving workplaces are the dream we all share, but let’s be real—getting there isn’t always easy....

A Look Back and Look Forward: Where Are You Headed with Culture?

Culture can make or break a workplace. If that sounds dramatic, but consider this: 94% of executives and 88% of employees believe a strong workplace culture is critical to business success, yet 69% of employees say their organizations lack a culture where feedback is...

Celebrate the Season Without Dividing Your Team: Inclusive Holiday Tips

The holiday season may be billed as the most wonderful time of the year, but it’s often a minefield of conflicts waiting to happen. Holidays are deeply personal, sparking joy and nostalgia for some while leaving others feeling excluded or stressed. With 44% of...

3 Ways to Manage Post-Election Stress at Work and Home This Holiday Season

Elections are more than debates and opinions—they’re emotional whirlwinds that don’t end when the polls close. This year, presidential election stress is breaking records, with reported levels higher than in both 2020 and 2016. And the fallout lingers. A University of...

Post-Election Chaos: 3 Ways to Keep Psychological Safety Intact

According to a survey by the American Psychological Association, nearly 70% of Americans view political discourse as a significant source of stress, and workplaces are no exception. In fact, SHRM reports that political and social tensions have driven workplace...

Your CEO thinks HR is operational, not strategic?

Do these comments resonate with you?  Owners don’t understand that we’re not just paperwork. HR is a punching bag expected to resolve everyone’s mess. There’s no HR budget, no support, and a team of 2 for 300+ employees. Even after a workforce survey, leadership still...

Free Webinar: Unlock Your Managers’ Leadership Potential

Being good at your job doesn’t make you good at managing people. You know this.  You also know the outcome when an individual contributor moves to a manager role without receiving the right training – a struggling team, unclear expectations, conflict, disengaged...

5 Tools for Pitching Culture Change to Leadership

You already know that a strong culture leads to engaged employees, lower turnover, and a healthier bottom line, but convincing leadership? That’s a different story. It's exhausting pushing for changes that are dismissed as “soft skills” or shot down because they don't...

Why leadership’s ‘Hands-Off’ approach to culture is costing you more than you think

Picture this: you’re actively working to foster a positive workplace culture, but managers and leaders are adopting a 'hands-off' approach. At first, it seems harmless, even convenient—but beneath the surface, it's quietly wreaking havoc. Top talent? They're slipping...